Are you pursuing authenticity at a cost?
‘Inauthentic people are obsessed with authenticity.’ Jonathan Franzen, novelist.
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Continue readingWhy aim fire – aim fire has replaced ready, aim fire
“‘The rules have changed. ‘Ready aim fire has been replaced by,
‘Aim, fire, aim, fire, aim, fire.‘”
Continue readingHow being overly positive can get your in to trouble
‘Two strong intelligent people, will always come up with a better solution than one , so long as ego doesn’t get in the way.’ Peter Scanlon.
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‘It’s about recognizing that regardless of what the score is,
the most important point is that next point.’
Andre Agassi.Continue readingGauging how to give and receive feedback techniques
‘People ask for criticism, but they only want praise’.
Somerset Maugham
When I work with clients, near the start of a workshop/directing a pitch session, I discuss how to give feedback, by relaying the above quote. After hearing it, many people nod in agreement.
Then I share a quote from the Tao Te Ching:
‘When he (the master) makes a mistake, he realizes it. Having realized it, he admits it. Having admitted it, he corrects it.
He considers those who point out his faults as his most benevolent teachers. He thinks of his enemy as the shadow that he himself casts.’
This quote is also met with nods.
I then suggest, that when giving feedback, participants keep both quotations in mind – while giving slightly more emphasis to the ‘people only want praise’ one.
In a similar vein to the above quotes, here is a quote from John Gardner, the late, American public servant.




