TOUGH-guy look, OVER-PLAYED

If you need to ape a tough-guy look – are you really that tough?

In the featured image of this post, the two Union officials – with their stern, facial expressions and the thumbs out, hands in pocket stance of the person on the right –

seem like caricatures of how a tough union officials should look.

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North Korean DEFECTOR Y. Park’s SPEAKING LESSON

This 6:53 minute, harrowing speech – by Yeonmi Park – may make you shed a tear. (please see link below). And the reason you may shed a tear, is because Park is deeply grieved. Here is the LINK   Here is the TRANSCRIPT of the speech.

Own the Conversation

A lesson from Park’s speech is this. A good speech/presentation is good, because it makes you feel something, and/or remember something and/or do something. If you want your audiences to feel deeply about your spoken messages or have a deep memory of you and your message and/or act promptly on your messages – you first – must feel deeply about the importance of your message. Park’s speech has made me feel sorrow. It has left a searing memory with me, and it has made me investigate how I might help the plight of North Koreans. DO THIS: For the next seven days, before you deliver an important message, reflect on and feel – at a deeper level that you normally would – the importance of your message. Then, channel that feeling into your delivery of the message.
p.s. One of the first laws of movie making – is to KEEP ATTENTION. The same law applies to speaking. Many speakers lose the attention of the audience because they bore the ears of their listeners, through a monotonous voice speed, pitch, volume, cadence etc. – so their minds wander to the chicken and dry cleaning they need to pick-up on their way home from work. Here is a post with a simple, powerful ‘Unpredictable wind’ metaphor on how to use your voice to keep the attention of your audiences.

How to command the boardroom

If you don’t believe in the messenger, you won’t believe the message, writes MICHAEL KELLY. Here are seven public speaking tools that can help lawyers project confidence in meetings.

Read the article below featured in The Law Society Journal: