Why leaders should be a ‘Beacon of hope’

In last week’s post I listed survey responses to the question, ‘What’s the first job of a leader?’. In the form of a metaphor, let me elaborate on my response to that question. That is: to, ‘Be a beacon of hope’.

‘Be a beacon of hope’ is not only the first job of a leader – it’s the every day job, through to the last job, of a leader. Continue reading

How being bold effects you and your audience

While I don’t agree with some of the suggestions and tactics in Robert Greene’s book, The 48 Laws of Power, Law 28 in the book entitled, ‘Enter action with boldness’, has some valuable ideas. In particular, Greene shares in Law 28, the suggestion: ‘Be bold – no one honours the timid’. Continue reading

Why carrying yourself with dignity is important

Robert Greene refers to the ‘Dignity of a king/queen in his book, The 48 Laws of Power’, Law 34: ‘Be royal in your own fashion – Act like a king to be treated like one.’ He maintains that acting with dignity is an ‘extremely powerful pose’.Continue reading

3 Barack Obama presentation mastery techniques

While Barack Obama’s political star has dimmed since his 2008 U.S. presidential election victory, his oratory and personal communication skill is still a benchmark of excellence, and one to aspire to.

Obama’s most enduring skill is how he takes time – through exploiting pauses when he speaks; through his body movement and gesture (smooth & coordinated); through tuning into the rhythm of a moment and choosing an apt action or non-action; through being ‘light’ about himself while taking his job seriously (in a group photo of leaders at the recent APEC meeting, Obama joked with Julia Gillard about her hair preening in preparation for the photo).

Obama delivered a workman-like (for him) performance in his address to the Australian Federal Parliament today. Before he started his address he demonstrated intelligent listening to Prime Minister Julia Gillard’s address, conveyed through his attentive eyes and face. His actual speech, like many of his set piece performance, is like a dance – where he starts with an easy light aside (eg. the joke about his prior mangling of Australian slang).

Following the opening he shifts his body much like a jazz musician who is getting into his rhythm and finding his groove. He starts extending final consonants in words a fraction longer and starts exploiting pauses for effect. He shifts up a gear in voice energy and acceleration for key parcels of speech, as demonstrated in his ‘We never forget’ repetitive phrasing during the speech.

He closed the speech with measure and certainty. I give him an 8/10 for the speech. By the way, Julia Gillard’s face and body language during Obama’s speech conveyed deep feeling and resonance for Obama – almost at the level of ‘hero worship’ status. Her numerous head nods during the speech were expressions of this deep feeling.

The ‘how to apply’ for this post: In your sales presentation meetings and interactions over the next seven days, in the manner of Obama, on purpose, intermittently ‘exploit a pause’ in your delivery for a ¼ or ½ a second, and note its impact on the certainty that you feel, and its impact on your listener.

p.s. Here’s a link from where you can download an Australian Financial Review article with my 2008 deconstruction of Obama’s speech communication, listening and body language:

http://www.kellyspeech.com.au/2008/10/measured-manner-a-winning-way-afr/

“So much of leadership is in their eyes. . .”

I recently reread an article that shared the following quote by John Kotter, leadership and change authority, delivered at the end of a 2007 Harvard ‘Leadership Best Practices’ program.

“You learn more watching great leaders on video for 10 minutes than you learn reading the 200,000 Amazon books on leadership.Continue reading

How persuasion links with your conviction

“People will be persuaded by the depth of your conviction, more than by the height of your logic; more by your enthusiasm, than by any proof you can offer.” This quote is attributed to David Peoples. In many instances I believe the quote rings true. I’d add the following thought to it.Continue reading

How to walk, so you don’t get mugged

“Inmates who were shown video clips of people walking on a city footpath rated who would, and who wouldn’t, be good prospects to mug.”  I came across this quote when recently reviewing information from my body language research library.Continue reading