When was the last time you reviewed your leadership principles?
Recently I was having a virtual meeting with a friend, Dio Saucedo. Dio holds a PhD in Educational Psychology and regularly works with professional athletes to improve their performances.
One vignette Dio shared was as follows…
During a coaching session asked his athlete clients to consider how much time each day they spent on improving their physical performance. For example, for baseball players, improving the batting.
Then he asked the clients how much time they spent on improving the mental performance. He suggested several time options but in the end, the athletes agreed the amount of time spend on mental performance improvement, was just 3 minutes.
Continue readingWhen you open Q&A – never use this question
‘Does anyone have any questions?’
Admit it.
Near the end of a one of your prior presentations, I would bet – at least once – you have used this question to open a Q&A session.
And most likely you received a mediocre response to the question.
Here’s the first take-away message for you.
BAN all Yes/No questions when you open Q&A
including ‘Does anyone have any questions?’
Continue readingHow counting your ‘ums’ & ‘ahs’ can make you a better speaker
incentivise a trusted person’s awareness* of your filler word usage.
Here’s and explanation of the process: Find a trusted person and tell them your target filler word. Prior to a presentation or meeting, tell the trusted person to count the number of target filler words they hear. Tell them you’ll give them a reward them for every 5 or 10 filler words they count. A reward you can give the person might be, a Chupa Chups lollipop for every 10 filler words they hear. If you keep incentivising people for counting your filler words, again over time, your filler word usage will decline. By the way there is app LikeSo specifically designed to reduce filler word usage.Own the Conversation
Here’s what to do over the next seven day:- Identify your filler word/phrase.
- Trial either Step 2 or the incentivising awareness process.
- Reflect on trialling the process.
Canadian PM Justin TRUDEAU on how to HANDLE a QUESTION
In my Listen and speak under pressure programs one schema I share with participants for handling tough questions, is my signature Think on your feet, five step schema.
Here is the schema…
#1 As a person is asking you a question, simultaneously starting nodding to acknowledge that you are engaged. (I call this an ‘Engagement nod) and picture the letters DBAE (which stands for Don’t Be Anywhere Else) on the questioner’s forehead. (The DBAE technique will help nail you to the present moment).
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