Canadian PM Justin TRUDEAU on how to HANDLE a QUESTION

In my Listen and speak under pressure programs one schema I share with participants for handling tough questions, is my signature Think on your feet, five step schema.

Here is the schema…

#1 As a person is asking you a question, simultaneously starting nodding to acknowledge that you are engaged. (I call this an ‘Engagement nod) and picture the letters DBAE (which stands for Don’t Be Anywhere Else) on the questioner’s forehead. (The DBAE technique will help nail you to the present moment).

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HOW to be MEMORABLE when everyone else is FORGETTABLE

The spoken word, wisely chosen – beats the heck out of a slick brochure.

Injecting literary devices in your speaking can help you beat the heck out of a slick brochure and win the noisy world, attention battle with other speakers – who are competing for the limited attention of your listener.

Consider this passage on pp. 60-61 of the stellar book, Made to Stick, by Dan and Chip Heath.

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Compairing the body language and speech of Trump, Clinton in 2016

   

Why Clinton scored 8 and Trump 7 in Debate Three

AdobeStock_71024322(1) (Large)Leaving aside the value of Hillary Clinton and Donald Trump’s policies in their third US Presidential debate, and rating their body language, speech, manner and presence consistent with an inspiring, visionary, competent leader of state – I gave

Hillary Clinton, 8 out of 10

Donald Trump, 7 out of 10

 

Michael Kelly - Channel 9 interview

 

p.s Under the intense pressure of the event, moderator Chris Wallace is to be applauded for his professional, firm control of the combatants, and for keeping the audience in check.

p.p.s Here is my analysis of a 2013 debate between Kevin Rudd and Tony Abbott

Why measured Clinton beat Trump on Debate Two

Leaving aside who won the battle of the ideas, in the first Donald Trump versus Hillary Clinton debate, the person who won the battle of the body AdobeStock_71024322(1) (Large)language, speaking, presence, and manner – consistent with an inspiring, visionary and competent leader of state – was Hillary Clinton. I scored:

Hillary Clinton, 8 out of 10      

Donald Trump, 6.5 out of 10

These are the key reasons for Clinton’s win over Trump:
  • Her gravitas conveyed through a measured, in-control speaking cadence and structure and measured body movement and gesture versus Trump’s bombastic, rapid-fire speaking delivery, fitful body movement and quick gestures.
  • Her holding direct eye contact with Trump when under attack and her overall composure versus Trump’s avoidance of direct eye contact, contorted facial expressions and repeated interrupting of Clinton, and his interrupting and arguing with the moderator.
Presidential debates are not about scoring points, but more about presenting a world view and bearing consistent with a statesman or woman. Clinton was more aligned with presenting a world view and bearing. The body language, speech, voice and presence of a leader matter, because they

reveal aspects of a person’s character

and a window into their soul. Trump’s best moment was:
  • Conveying genuine concern about the racism in the United States.
Trump’s worst moments/behaviours – in addition to the above points, included:
  • Making personal attacks on individuals. For example, on Janet Yellen.
  • Abrupt stoppage of speaking after a making a point.
  • Self-congratulatory language. For example, ‘I’m very proud of that.’
Clinton’s best moments/behaviours – in addition to the above points, included:
  • Her Open – Middle – Close speaking structure.
  • A direct gaze into the camera when addressing the nations of the world.
  • The retort, “I was preparing to become president’.
  • The ‘words matter’ statement.
Clinton’s worst moments/behaviours included:
  • an over-rehearsed opening statement.
  • interrupting Trump.
p.s This week, a client of mine made the observation that capitalism seemed more and more, to be ‘ruling’ the democracies of the world. This comment prompted me to respond that it seemed the ‘word’ to describe this phenomenon is, ‘capocracy’. Check out this post with my analysis of the 4 October 2012, Presidential debate between Mitt Romney and Barack Obama

Trump versus Clinton Debate One – Body language and speech analysis

What type of leaders are Donald Trump and Hillary Clinton – based on their spoken messages, style, look and body language? Is there anything they need to do to win over voters?AdobeStock_71024322(1) (Large)

When voters make judgements on whom to vote for, they ask themselves questions such as: ‘Do I like the candidate?, Do I trust the candidate?,

Can I emotionally identify with the candidate?, Does the candidate have integrity?, Does the candidate have the bearing and the world view of a leader of state?, Will the candidate be competent?’Continue reading