“Well sir I really can’t get mad at a fellow like that. You see, he really isn’t mad at me. I was just the scapegoat. The poor fellow may be in bad trouble with his wife, or his business may be off, or maybe he feels inferior and this was his golden chance to feel like a wheel. Continue reading
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Here’s the routine for confident reception desk interactions
Lucy Kellaway as always makes some telling and humorous points about reception area etiquette (“Your rudeness in reception may be used against you“, FT 29/3/15). http://on.ft.com/1H2R6I2
I visit numerous waiting rooms every week. One area where people often miscue at the reception desk is in saying their name first and then the name of the person they’re meeting with. This will often cause the receptionist to ask for their name again.
For a seamless, time-saving, reception-desk interaction:
1. Say the name of the person you’re meeting with (ie. start with known information).
2. Then say your name.
3. Then take a name badge/register.
If you subscribe to the view that ‘Whatever can be seen or heard, will be seen or heard, and will form an impression’, and that you should maximise the number of positive impressions you leave – your reception desk etiquette does matter, and will contribute to other people’s perceptions of you.
What’s the best etiquette for reception desk interactions -and why most people get it wrong
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