I recently worked with a client who was feeling a bit nervous about delivering a best man speech. Before our one-on-one session, I crafted a few potential openings for him, as well as some key pointers on structure and delivery. Here are some of the ideas I shared, which might help you or someone you know who’s preparing for the big moment.
Opening Section
The first sentence of a speech is critical—it should hook the audience immediately. Here are a couple of options for an impactful start:
- “This, is a happy day… This… is a very happy day.”
- “I never thought this day would come, but I am so glad it has.”
A strong, memorable opening sets the tone for the rest of the speech, so take time to craft it.
Middle Section
For the body of the speech, stick to three key points or anecdotes to keep it structured and engaging. Here’s a guide:
- When you met the groom: Share a fun or heartfelt story from the early days of your friendship.
- A memorable experience: Talk about a special or humorous moment you’ve shared.
- The significance of your friendship: Highlight what the friendship has meant to you over the years, using a personal example.
People remember things in threes, so keeping it concise and focused will make your speech more impactful.
Closing Section
A classic closing is a toast to the couple. For example, “Please stand and join me in toasting [Groom] and [Bride].”
Here are a few extra tips to make your speech stand out:
- Timing is key: Speak for no more than four minutes (240 seconds). Less is more!
- Add a light touch: Aim to get an early, un-cheesy smile or chuckle from the audience to put everyone at ease, including yourself.
- Own the conversation: Project confidence and sincerity. This is your moment, so embrace it fully.
Own the Conversation
Implementation Idea
If you or someone you know is preparing for a best man speech, these tips could make all the difference. Save or share them as a helpful guide for crafting a memorable and heartfelt speech.
Let me know if you’d like more detailed advice for an upcoming event!